Top 5 things to do if you've lost your job

Lost jobWhat should you do if you've lost your job? There are a million things you can do, but it's difficult to know where to start. Even if, like me, you're blessed enough to be employed in spite of the global economic turmoil, it's important to know how to rebound if you're sent packing without warning.

1. Give thanks. Whether it's to your higher power, your friends, your family, your pets, or yourself, there is something for you to appreciate and be grateful for. No matter how bad you feel that you've lost your job, things could be worse - you're well aware of the suffering many humans have gone and are going through. This first step might be just the thing you need to kick-start your deflated ego's motivation to go out and find the next great thing in your life.

2. Do what you love and be different doing it. You know you have skill, knowledge or passion that gives you an edge over others who are competing fiercely in the job market. Can you create something useful, beautiful, or just plain silly? Sell it on Etsy. Have you kept a journal? Publish it as a memoir on Lulu. Passionate about helping the homeless, furthering animal welfare, or ending cancer? Get involved and volunteer - you never know who you'll meet or what positive changes you'll bring about in others' lives and your own.

3. Communicate. Starting a blog; joining Facebook, LinkedIn, and "real-life" networking groups like Rainmakers; calling old buddies, coworkers and teachers - that's all great and might generate some good leads toward a new job or career. But don't overlook the power in the simplicity of talking to your neighbors, folks you see regularly at your local haunt, or heck, even your supposed enemies. No matter how you get in touch with people in our high-tech times, having a good conversation is as powerful as ever. Unfortunately, we often rely too much on our email, Facebook or text messaging to communicate instead of having simple face-to-face conversations. Plus, conversation is a good reason to have a cup of coffee or good meal.

Metal worker4. Learn. The world is based on change, and you won't get anywhere if you aren't open to new experiences. Though the cost of learning can be quite high, it's likely to pay off, especially when you need every advantage you can get with the number of skilled, well-educated people hunting for jobs today. Learning doesn't have to mean going to college. Use your local library, the internet, or find professionals who are willing to have you as an apprentice. Into woodcarving, cooking, marketing, or pretty much anything else? There are more ways than ever to educate yourself, gain experience, and profit for your own well-being, as long as you have the will to do so. Don't have the will? Go back to #1 and start again.

5. Be different. Lots of people are in the same situation you are. Lots of people have the same experience, education, lack of money, desire to succeed as you. But are they all different in employers', investors', purchasers' or supporters' eyes? Probably not. There's a good chance someone else has your name (I know you've Googled your name!), and there's an infinitely better chance that in this world, someone's competing for the same space in life that you're vying for. But there is a way for you to stand out, and you know it. Exploit it. Share it. If you haven't found it, go back to step 3 and ask someone how you're different - you might be pleasantly surprised.

Jack of many tradesBonus tip (sorry, I lied when I wrote "Top 5"): Be a jack of many trades and also a master of one. Many people know a little about a lot of things - do you know a lot about one thing, too? If not, learn how to apply everything you know and everything you enjoy to doing what you love. You'll not only be a more well-rounded person, you'll be more marketable in the job market, more happy, and you'll make the world a better place.

Songs randomly played in my iTunes library while writing this post:
"Give Thanks" - Bob Marley
"It's a Shame" - the Spinners
"The Days" - Eliot Lipp
"Somebody" - Depeche Mode
"Tchaparian" - Hot Chip
"Revolution" the Beatles
"You" - Marvin Gaye
"Had to Cry Today" - Blind Faith
"Don Gon Do It" - the Rapture
"Fit You Haffe Fit" - Black Uhuru
"No Rain" - Blind Melon
"Side 8" - Tobacco
"Take This Job and Shove It" - Dead Kennedys
"Get Up, Get Into It, Get Involved" - James Brown
I'm not kidding about the last two!

What tips can you offer about those who are out of work and searching for employment?

A bonus bonus tip: Don't dwell. What's done is done, and thinking about what you coulda shoulda woulda done gets you nowhere but further into the hole you're in. Look forward to positive changes, and good things will come.

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Examples of leadership in animal welfare worldwide

I'm not an eternal optimist. But my faith in the power of hope and courage is stronger than ever, thanks to leaders like Rob Stewart (shark advocate and creator of the film Sharkwater), Paul Watson (founder of the Sea Shepherd Conservation Society), Jill Robinson (founder of Animals Asia Foundation), and Seth Godin (social-media guru and inspiration to leaders/heretics worldwide.)

Sharkwater DVD

Rob Stewart is leading the fight against the extermination of sharks senselessly slaughtered for their fins. If you watch one movie this year, make it Stewart's film Sharkwater - it will change your worldview.Rob Stewart

Stewart, a professional photographer and lifelong shark advocate, directed the film, which is predicated on the fact that sharks are the keystone predator of the seas, and arguably the world: without them, populations of creatures worldwide will be put in tragic flux, and because the seas serve as the earth's thermostat, our own livelihood will be at stake as well. Sound alarmist? Good. Even though we rarely, if ever, see sharks in our daily lives, they need your attention.

School of HammerheadsSharks have been around for over 400 million years, and were here roughly 150 million years before land-dwelling dinosaurs. Unfortunately, human desire for the tasteless shark-fin soup (mostly in Asia) - which has been proven to have no beneficial effects on human health - has decimated global shark populations to 10% of their historical levels.

Movies like Jaws and sensational headlines of rare shark attacks haven't helped this beautiful animal's survival, but people like Rob Stewart have. He's seen and fought the bloody slaughter of these creatures firsthand, and risked life and limb to prevent their deaths. (Literally - he nearly lost a leg to a flesh-eating disease during filming of the movie, and had to avoid the "Shark-Fin Mafia", which rakes in billions of dollars a year thanks to the trade.)

Leaders like Rob Stewart are willing to risk everything for what they believe in, and though he might be viewed as a fanatical heretic by most people for trying to save what's traditionally been seen as a maniacal killer, future generations will likely look back at ours and either thank people like Stewart or wonder why more of us didn't help his cause.

Captain Paul WatsonRob Stewart accompanies Paul Watson, founder of Sea Shepherd, on some shark-saving missions in the film. I won't go into detail about Watson's storied history (he's featured in Animal Planet's Whale Wars), but he's another leader who's fought for what he believes in despite naysayers, tradition and defiance.

Sea ShepherdWatson founded Sea Shepherd in the early 80's, and has embarked on hundreds of missions to save defenseless wildlife the world over. He's been met with criticism - and often violent opposition - from private fisherman, governments, and even other animal-welfare organizations. But he's forged ahead, maintaining his faith that the world will be better if the brutal slaughter of ocean life is put to an end.

Animals Asia rescues dogs in ChinaLeaders worldwide are fighting successfully for causes they believe in, causes that benefit you or things you believe in even if you know nothing about what's going on. Animals Asia Foundation was founded by Jill Robinson to protect animals and end cruelty in Asia. They recently rescued 149 dogs being illegally shipped in China for their meat, and have made inroads in saving the lives of thousands of more animals in areas where dogs, cats, bears, tigers and other animals are consumed without abandon. In a culture where people often consume animals with complete disregard for their wellbeing (our culture isn't necessarily much better), Jill Robinson's courage and faith is all many animals have going for them. She continues in spite of what other people say against her.

Another leader in animal welfare, Nathan Winograd, has faced opposition from some of the largest animal-welfare agencies in the world. Director of the No Kill Advocacy Center, Winograd fights on for what he believes in - saving the lives of millions of shelter dogs and cats in America - in spite of intense attacks.

Tribes coverWinograd and other leaders are profiled in Seth Godin's latest book, Tribes: We Need You to Lead Us. Godin's a leader in his own right, and believes that leadership is more powerful than management, and that the faith of the few is more effective and inevitably more beneficial than the strength of the majority. If you're trying to make a change in your work, in your society, in your life, Godin's book will inspire you and give you insight into effective leadership.

Though you may've never heard of the people mentioned above, they're working passionately and fiercely for what they believe in. They've all inspired followers to work for their movements, and they've made inroads in areas that have been traditionally closed to positive change. They're heretics who challenge the status quo, who do what they believe in, who look to the future and forge ahead without fear of failure. And though they might not have nearly as many followers or detractors as other motivated, strong people attacked as heretics - Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., Barack Obama - they're making positive change in a world of resistance.

The thing I've learned most from these people is that it doesn't take a world to make change. It doesn't even take a majority to form a meaningful and powerful movement. All it takes is a few people with faith and motivation to make the world a better place for everyone. Positive change comes from negative circumstances, and if you're looking to lead others in your faith - no matter what it is - you'd do well learn about these people, and to take this quote from Seth Godin to heart:

"Tearing others down isn't as helpful as building followers up."

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Time flies when you're having fun

I haven't set aside time to write lately: got into a car accident which basically totaled my 1994 Nissan Quest minivan in mid-December, a day before I went skiing in Steamboat, Colorado.

Then the holidays came, and we finally sold our house after it was on the market for nearly half a year.

Basically broke even, but found out the previous owners a) were paid $11,000 to replace a hail-damaged roof and b) they never replaced the roof but lied about it on their sales disclosure, and our "inspector" didn't catch it. So we had to pay our buyer to fix the roof (thankfully, not the entire $11k the previous owners were paid.) Nice. I guess that's what small claims court is for (or soon will be.)

And I've been busy at work - a great thing. Working on some websites, PR, marketing, and helping adoptable dogs and cats in many ways. We're trying out some social-media avenues (Twitter, Facebook, ExactTarget e-blasts, etc.) to get the word out about our animals, and it's working. It's quite an amazing experience!

One of the sites I'm working on is for Mutt Strut. I'm considering using Expression Engine as blog/CMS software on it. This blog is run on WordPress, which I also used for the Angie's List Podcast site during my time there. I'm even considering trashing the design of this site in favor of a custom Expression Engine setup.

Wordpress is great, but customizing its templates can be a bit of a beast, especially for a PHP non-expert like myself. We're working with xiik on this project, and I'm sure they could wrassle a Wordpress theme into shape, but Expression Engine seems to offer much potential.

If you've used both platforms, what are your thoughts in the Wordpress vs. Expression Engine battle? Which do you prefer, and why? (Hopefully this isn't as heated as a "dogs versus cats" argument!)

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